25 años, 3 pelis, un rebot: «And just like that…» y a punto de entrar el 22 de junio en su segunda temporada -y todo un hito de una generación que sobrevivió categorías y desafió al pan sexual, try sexual, homosexual, heterosexual y todo lo «sexual» y hasta la tragedia de September 11, aquí las preguntas de un «zeitgiest«:

1 Were women in New York really giving up on love and throttling up on power?
2 If models could cause otherwise rational individuals to crumble their presence, exactly how powerful was beauty?

3 Is there a secret cold war between singles and marrieds?
4 Are men in their twenties the new designer drug?
5 Where’s the line between the professional girlfriend and just plain “professional”?
6 How many of us out there are having great sex with people we’re ashamed to introduce to our friends?
7 In a city like New York, with its infinite possibilities, has monogamy too much to expect?
8 Were threesomes the new sexual frontier?
9 In a city of great expectations, is it time to settle for what you can get?
10 As I watched Laney tear open a terry cloth baby bib with the same enthusiasm she once reserved for tearing off rock stars’ pants, I couldn’t help but wonder was I next?

11 How often is normal?
12 Are relationships the religion of the nineties?
13 What are the break-up rules?
14 Are there still certain things in a relationship one should never say?
15 Are all men freaks?
16 Is it better to fake it than be “alone”?
17 Can a relationship bring you back to life?
18 In a gravity-free world of “anything goes,” what constitutes cheating?
19 In a city as cynical as New York, is it still possible to believe in love at first sight?
20 Are we willing to believe anything to date?
21 Can you change a man?
22 Can we date outside of our caste?
23 Are New Yorkers evolving past relationships?
24 When it comes to relationships, how do you know when enough is enough?
25 Do you have to play games to make a relationship work?
26 We were all in fact just dating the same person over and over again?
27 When you date someone, how many people become emotionally involved? When you sleep with some, are screwing the family?
28 How do you know if you’re good in bed?
29 Twenty-something girls: friend… or foe?
30 Can you be a friend with an ex?
31 Do women just want to be rescued?
32 Can there be sex without politics?
33 Are there women in New York who are just there to make us feel bad about ourselves?
34 If we can take the best of the other sex and make it our own, has the opposite sex become obsolete?
35 In a relationship, what are the “deal breakers”?
36 Are we simply romantically challenged, or are we sluts?
37 Do we need a drama to make a relationship work?
38 Is timing everything?
39 When it comes to relationships, is it smarter to follow your heart or your head?
40 Can we have it all?
41 Is sex ever safe?
42 In a relationship is honesty the best policy?
43 No matter how far you travel or how much you run from it, can you ever really escape from your past?
44 When it comes to bags, men, and cities, is it really what’s outside that counts?
45 In today’s youth, obsessed with culture, are the women of my generation growing into mature, responsible adults, or are we thirty-four going on thirteen?
46 Are we getting wiser, or just getting older?
47 Is there such a thing as relationship karma?
48 Could it be that the problem isn’t them, but the horror of horrors, is it us?
49 Soul mates: Reality or torture device?
50 Why is it that we can see our friends perfectly, but when it comes to ourselves, no matter how hard we look, do we ever see ourselves clearly?
51 What really defines the relationship?
52 What comes first, the chicken (the relationship) or the sex?
53 When a relationship dies, do we ever give up the ghost, or are we forever hunted by the spirits of relationships past?
54 In matters of love, do actions really speak louder than the words?
55 Can you ever really forgive if you can’t forget?
56 If giving a man the keys to your apartment means unlocking the door to home cooking and great sex, why were so many independent women…
57 When does the art of compromise become comprising?
58 Are men the women with balls?
59 As we speed this endless road to the destination called “Who-We-Hope-to-Be” I can’t help but whine, are we there yet?
60 In matters of love, how do you know when it’s right?
61 When it comes to the relationship, what are we fighting for?
62 To be a couple, do you have to put your single self to a shelf?
63…do we really want these things (marriage and children), or are we just programmed?
64 At the end of yet another failed relationship,… you have to wonder, what’s it all worth?
65 How much does a “father figure” figure?
66 Can you make a mistake and miss your fate?
67 Does that sense of adventure still flicker inside of us, or when it comes to being carefree single girls, have we missed the boat?
68 What is the harm of in believing?
69 If we know the house always wins, why gamble?
70 If it is instantly clear that a person, a place, or even a profession is not for you, is it better to ignore your better judgement and read between the lines, or should you judge a book by its cover?
71 Why do we let the one thing we don’t affect all the things we do have? why does one minus a plus one feel like it adds up to zero?
72 When it comes to life and love, why do we believe our worst reviews?
73 Are we the new bachelors?
74 Is a relationship a relationship without the Zsa Zsa Zsu?
75 When it comes to financing and dating…, why do we keep investing?
76 Why is it always something?
77 Can you get to a future if your past is present?
78 When does criticism that’s constructive become deconstructive? Are there times when the ladies should just shut the fuck up?
79 Are the men of today less threatened by woman’s power, or are they just acting?
80 Do we need distance to get close?
81 Do we search “lessons” to lessen the pain?
82 When did it stop being fun and start being scary?
83 When do we stop being free to be you and me?
84 When it comes to matters of the heart, did we have it right in high school?
85 Just how dangerous is an open heart?
86 When will waiting for the one… be done?
87 When it comes to men, even when we try to keep it light, how do we wind up in the dark?
88 Have we become romance intolerant?
89 Why are we should-ing all over ourselves?
90 Denial: Friend… or foe?
91 Without sharing your worlds, can even the hottest relationship stop cold?
92 Is it some time to stop questioning?

Tomado de Alley Girl – The Fashion Technology Blog based in New York https://alleygirl.com/92-questions-carrie-bradshaw-asks-entire-serie/

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